Why do people relate feminine boys to gay?

Cause we are supposed long hair and soft voices, biologically speaking. Girls tend to care more about what we wear, girls are more fun and outgoing so it goes along with how they dress. It's just how society is raised, you never see a neutrual zone, whether it's sparkly glittery stick thin Barbie dolls compared to buff dull hardcore GI Joes. Unfortunately, you'll have to deal with it. People judge and assume, we're all humans and how we are raised affects a lot of our thinking also.